You expect a lot, and—shockingly—you appear to deliver the same. You're not perfect, but you hold yourself to roughly the same standard you demand from others. That's either very mature or very rare. Probably both.

Your standards are reasonable, and you're genuinely aware of your own imperfections. You don't expect a partner to be superhuman—because you know you're not either. Self-awareness is underrated. You've got it.

Your expectations are mysteriously flexible when you're the one being evaluated. Partner should reply instantly? You'll get back to them eventually. Partner should be on time? Traffic happens. The bar you set for others is somehow much higher than the one beneath you.

You have a crystal-clear vision of what an ideal partner should be—excellent work on that. Being that person? Completely different story. You're a world-class dater in theory. In practice, you're still workshopping it.