Relationships are lovely. I know this because knowing that you have someone to share all your thoughts, fears and love with is incredible. But it isn’t always the same cheezy feeling. A relationship is a two-way thing. It is said that it is not about giving and taking but deep down inside you know the reality too. You have to be willing to give back as much as you have received and that is the only way the relationship will work ahead.
Not just this but there’s more to it. If you are willing to settle down in the world of all things romantic and giddy you’ve got to love yourself first. Yes, you read that right. I know this sounds like a hard thing to do but you have to learn to love yourself unconditionally before you get into a relationship with another person. After all, love is a wonderful feeling and falling in love with a person isn’t the only thing that your life should revolve around. Invest in yourself first.
1.) You realise that love isn’t the only thing that makes your life perfect. There are several little things.
2.) You discover all your hidden passions and you start taking out time for that.
3.) You love to make new friends and meet new people.
4.) You take out time for yourself and you love your own company.
5.) You know your aims, goals and desires pretty well.
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6.) You appreciate your small and simple relationships.
7.) You take out a lot of time to travel and pamper yourself.
8.) You wish to achieve more and you have your plans ready.
9.) You know exactly what you want and how you can achieve that.
10.) You don’t lie down and act like a spoilt brat but believe in hustling.
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11.) You are a great listener and you love to take notes from great people.
12.) You continously work to be the best damn version of yourself.
13.) You start loving the person you have grown up to become.
So, what do you think? Are you in love with yourself?
